Making a relationship successful is not an easy task no matter how many years you have been together. Just like women, men want to be loved they might not show it by words and actions but in their heart they want to be loved. Men adores women who shower them with praises, adores them and always put them in the center of their life. Whatever the reason, men have an innate need to feel respected and appreciated by their partners. Getting a guy interested and keeping a guy interested are two different things. Keeping a guy interested and having a strong relationship with him requires a lot of talking. Read on to find out few simple strategies to help you keep your man.
Being dishonest or keeping secrets may cause a rift in your relationship, communicate with your partner regularly. If you have concerns or worries tell your partner about them so you can solve the problem together because an honest and transparent relationship strengthens the bond between partners.
Nobody wants to be nagged, its that simple, if you have an opinion or you need something say it once and you have a chance of getting it, but when you repeat the same issue 24 hours a day that is nagging.
3. THROUGH HIS STOMACH
Our mothers use to say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Men love food and they can eat not just any food but delicious meals, not all women can make delicious meals.For women that loves to cook they are lucky on this.
4. HANDLING DISAGREEMENT
No couple agrees all the time, there is always the tendency of conflict and disagreement, If you don’t agree with his decisions or he made you angry you must express your feelings in a manner that is not degrading or humiliating and you should listen to your partner and respect his beliefs and ideas even if they are different from yours, be direct and always employ a problem solving approach for disagreement.
This is really the base of every relationship and you need to tell him, hug him, text him, laugh with him, drop notes in his car and bathroom. Its really important as it would keep the love glowing.
6. BE CREATIVE IN BED
Men are sensual, sexual creatures. its always good to keep your sex life spicy and inventive to ensure that when he is thinking about it, he is thinking about it with you. Always best for married couples.
7. KEEP YOURSELF CLEAN
Guys love ladies that always looks good and smells sweet. If you want a guy to always bury his face in your neck all day,you must always look and smell sexy.
8. STAY LOYAL
No guy would wants to feel he is competing with the crowd for your attention, there is no point giving up your social life, you should know what is appropriate and what is not. Don’t do what you wouldn’t do in his presence at his absence and don’t flirt with other guys.
9. BE HIS LOVER AND FRIEND
Don’t be his mummy but his lover and friend, show him support when he needs it, make him want to tell you his deepest darkest secret and his craziest schemes. As long as he knows that you would always support him he would never turn to anywhere else.
10. RESPECT YOURSELF
Finally and above all respect yourself if you want to keep a man, you don’t need to lower your standard or compromise your belief because you want to make a relationship work. A man that would love you would do that when you are being your true self.