Do you think a man should first discuss with the lady he intends to marry, if he should propose in public or private when the time comes. Because, I think most guys make the marriage proposal decisions and arrangements themselves, about when and how to propose to their girlfriends when they are sure of spending the rest of their lives together.
Sometimes, a lady might act and sound like, yea, I would love to marry you, just to keep the relationship going, while waiting for the right man to come take her away, in order to avoid being tagged as a single lady. When you propose to such lady in public, what do you think might be her reaction?
And also, supposing the girlfriend being proposed to feels ambushed and can’t express her true feelings because she doesn’t want the guy to feel embarrassed? What should she do in such a situation?
The truth is, when a man proposes to a lady in public and she ends up saying NO. I trust my Naija brothers, they will curse and yab the hell out of her, and some guys will even start quoting Isaiah 4:1 – “In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying, “Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let us take your name so we won’t be mocked as old maids.”. That’s the Bible verse they know by heart. Lol.