The apprehension about dating broke people is so real, guys, so friggin’ real.
We know you men are also becoming pickier when it comes to financial capabilities of potential partners. No guy wants to be with a babe who sees no problem in depending totally on him.
While you should avoid this type of women at all costs, you can’t also refuse to be with every good woman you come across because she is broke.
It’s OK to get you a woman who’ll help reduce the financial load that comes with being in a relationship, or having a family.
At the same time, if you find yourself a lady who makes you happy, ticks the boxes for all or a significant part of your requirements, you can’t shut up your heart to the amazing possibilities because she’s broke.
If you love her and she has the right mentality, if her potential shines through and she has the right work ethic to match it, my guy, it won’t be long before things click in gear for her.
So if Cyndy, Amaka, Halima or Bisola is scraping to make ends meet now but you think she meets your standard for what the perfect woman should be like, don’t dull it, man, begin that relationship, and by following the tips below, you can make things work:
1. Be sensitive to her needs
You can’t close your eyes to your girl’s needs in this kind of relationship. Even if she does not ask or if you can’t do everything for her, just check out the most pressing ones you can handle and do them for her.
It’s best if she never has to ask before you do these things. Keep your eyes peeled and your ears open because she might not ask for your help, but you really need to be sensitive.
2. Be kind with your words
Every guy owes his woman the duty of being gentle and respectful to her. But for you, the duty is even more pronounced.
You can’t have yourself saying stuff to her that will make her feel disrespected because you are helping her with some of her bills. No, man, you can’t do that.
Of course, a good woman would understand that there are moments of weakness when you’d say stuff you don’t mean.
But it’s better to not even say those things at all than to hope she understands that your hurtful, disrespectful words are unconnected to the fact that you are helping her in some way.
3. Believe in her
You’ve got to believe in her if you are going to take a chance on building a life together with her.
If, instead of a trophy wife, you need a supportive partner who’ll really be involved in your life, and with whom you intend to build a beautiful, grand future, then you must believe in her.
You must believe in her ability to help you grow and to grow with you.
4. Support her dreams
Remember the part above that mentions her potential for greatness?
You need to fire the embers of her drive for success, you need to cheer her on no matter the amount of setbacks she faces in her effort to better herself.
You need to be there to pick her up each time she falls. You need to supportive arms that holds her up when she feels like staying down and giving up.
Come on, man. You need to support your girl’s dream and her push for greatness.
You need to be involved!